Underwater or sex in water is a secret fantasy of many a couples, especially because of the way it is shown in movies and television series. The big question is whether water sex is as much fun and sensational as it is shown in the flicks. The answer lies with you and your partner only. Water sex is fun only if you both are fully prepared and well equipped to do it. Otherwise, it can be a major mood buster or a disaster.
Introduction to sex under water
Sex in water makes one think of all the sorts of romantic things. It might seem very erotic to have sex in showers, bathtubs, swimming pools and even seas. Many people have even been there, done that. However, only a few of them will tell you about the gross problems they encountered during their adventurous sexual episode in the water. Most of them will tell you about the ‘oh-so-good’ feeling they get in water. Sorry for being a party pooper but water sex feels ‘oh-so-good’ only if you are fully prepared. Find out below more about water sex and how to get prepared for water sex, so that you are not left feeling miserable if things don’t turn out the right way.
Advantages of underwater sex
Most people are inspired to have underwater sex after they see sultry scenes in Hollywood flicks. Romantic places, water falls, lagoons all add to this fantasy of couples and some of them take the plunge. Being weightless and having sex can add to the panache of sex under water. Besides, these fantasies and idiosyncrasies, there are not many advantages of underwater sex, especially if it is not restricted to your bathtub or swimming pool.
Having sex under water in bathtubs and swimming pools is again another thing. It is definitely more pleasurable and exciting. Many couples do it regularly and claim it is better than having regular sex on the bed. The warmth of water just adds to the fun and eroticism. It heightens pleasure too.
Problems during sex under water
There are a few disadvantages of sex under water too. Some of them are as follows:
- Sex under water in cold climate can cause blue lips, numbness and goose bumps, wouldn’t it be kind of a turn off for most people
- Bathtubs and sometimes pools offer a grip to hold when you need to, but in seas and oceans, this might not be the case. Imagine losing balance while you are at it
- If you have to communicate during sex (communication is the key for good sex), you wouldn’t get a chance to do it in the water. If your partner is hurting you or doing something wrong, it would be a major issue to ask him to stop, without going up above and telling what’s wrong
- Water is a storehouse of salt, chlorine or bacteria, which can enter easily into the vagina by the thrusting motion of sex. This leads to irritation or infection
- Hot tubs, pools and Jacuzzis if not chlorinated adequately, increasing the amount of bacteria they contain and the likelihood of an infection
- Even if the water is properly chlorinated according to safety standards, there is still a risk of problem, as chlorine disrupts healthy bacteria and change the natural pH in the vagina leading to a yeast infection
Condoms for safe water sex
If you are planning to have sex under water and do not want to risk a pregnancy, the best option is to get condoms made of polyurethane and not latex. This is a safer option because oil-based lubricants or substances in the water cannot cause them to break. Chemicals used in a pool or hot tub affect the reliability of a condom. Chlorine used for cleaning the water can cause further damage to the condom. Interactions of condoms with chemicals and heat, lubrication and complications like putting the condom on correctly and the possibility of it slipping off are some of the other factors to consider before water sex. The best option is to avoid latex condoms. Trojan and Durex condoms are not advisable during sex under water.
Lubricants for safe water sex
Water can interfere with the natural juices that women produce making them dry. This makes it important to use a lubricant. If you are not equipped with lubricants, it is advisable you do not hit the waters just yet. Lubricants reduce the friction when the water destroys women’s natural juices. Do not use water-based lubricants in water, as they are easily washed off. Also, avoid oil-based lubricants, as they can destroy latex condoms. Don’t attempt to use soaps and shampoos too, this could spell disaster. The best option for you is to use silicone-based lubricants, which are the safest of all when used in water and cannot be washed off easily.
Once you are well equipped with the right kind of condoms and lubricants, you can take the plunge. Also, remember to communicate properly with your partner beforehand to avoid any confusion and problems later.
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