Sexual Health Guide for Men and Women

Do you really think you can impress a woman with flowers and chocolates on Valentine’s Day as you have been doing all these years. Though women love to get flowers, cards and all those romantic gifts, deep down their heart they need a man who excel in all fields – be it their careers, their homes or in their beds. If you are getting jitters because you have no idea what to do this Valentine’s Day to impress your girl; here are 6 things to have handy and you will have your girl forever:

1. A romantic movie

The night before Valentine’s, i.e. the 13^th of February, join her in the bed or couch and watch City of Angels, Love Story, Pretty Woman or any romantic movie that she likes. Get 4-5 DVDs, so that she can pick the one that she wants to watch with you and you don’t end up watching your favourite movie.

2. A cookbook

Arise in the morning before she does and prepare a decent breakfast for her. If you are feeling a good deal chivalrous, make all the meals and give her a break that day. You will need a decent cookbook, which will give you plenty of easy-to-prepare recipe ideas and tips.

3. A romantic CD

Get Greatest Hits of New Romantic or Cinema’s Classic Romance CDs (depends on your knowledge of what she will like the most). Even if she likes punk and rock, she will prefer romantic music on this particular day and won’t find you cheesy. Play it in the morning while you both sit for the “sumptuous” breakfast you have prepared.

4. A really good gift

Getting a good Valentine’s gift is something that not all men can do. A bad gift is often a deal-breaker in some relationships. It is your chance to show her that you really care and her happiness matters to you. Roses, chocolates, teddies, framed photographs are the worst gifts to have. A really good gift is the one that she will remember forever. It does not have to be bought from Tiffany’s or cost your a fortune – a simple gift that is meaningful, will win her too. A cell phone (to keep you both connected) or a digital camera (to preserve good memories) is a great idea for a gadget lover and a scrapbook with love poems and quotes written by you will win even the most die-hard romantic girl.

5. A thousand rose petals

Roses may be out but petals are not. If you want to give her roses, do it with a twist. Spell your lover’s name with rose petals or make a rose-strewn path for her in the bedroom leading to your bed. Though not very unique, this trick work without fail.

6. A big package

Once you both are in the bed, then flower petals, gifts and meals will be long forgotten. It is you that she will be thinking about. Impress her by showing off your most private asset in its enhanced size. Many penis enlargement pills are available on the market that can help you to enlarge your “package” in a couple of months. Try VigRX Plus penis pills and give your lover the best Valentine’s Day. If you are having troubles in keeping your erection for long, try Viapro. This male enhancement supplement can not only give you stronger erection but also help you to last longer in bed.

Tags: valentines day

Sex, apart from being associated with the feel good factor, is also associated with living healthy, feeling active, keeping a check on the process of aging and living longer. Sex has many benefits but for this to happen the sex has to be satisfactory for couples. The following is a brief exploration through this checklist to determine if your sex life is satisfactory as well as hot. It’s about time you found this out.

• After an eventful love making session, your man shows you a little love and cares to make you feel special; it is important to remain connected even after the actual sexual phase has passed. (If your man is doing his thing right, you get 10 points for your sex life.)

• While men are biologically tuned to desire sex any time, the female sex drive takes a little time in gearing up for the occasion. Both of you must have your heart and mind completely in to the act; it should be a pleasured, shared activity and not a chore for either of you. (Give yourself minus 1 every time you had sex without actually putting your heart and mind into it.)

• Your sex style and technique should vary, after all every thing becomes monotonous after a point and retaining a certain freshness is essential to keeping your interest piqued and sex life hot. Even after years of being with each other, you still feel that the sex is creative and full of surprises? (Give yourself plus 10 for every new style and position you have tried.)

• Do you ever take a bath together or give each other massage? Give yourself a pat on back for every time you do this. (Sorry no creativity here, so no extra points)

• Feeling of a gentle touch is amazing. If you are still awed and crave each others touch, or if you feel that your mind and body react to touch, you can be assured of having a hot sex life for the rest of your life. (Bonus 100 points.)

• You make love at the drop of a hat, in all the exciting places complete with sensuous sex games, and are looking for ways and means to last longer with or without male enhancement,  making your lovemaking memorable, exciting and mysterious. You have tried sex toys and everything that is said to take your sex life to the next level. (Congratulations, you are the master at the game. Feel free to drop us an email and share a few tips with us.)

Tags: couple, healthy sex life, relationship, Sex, Sexual Health

1) Sex toys and vibrators – Remember those nights when the moon was shining, the ambiance was just right for sex and you were totally in the mood, but there was no man around? You need some sex toys in your bedside drawer for exactly such nights.

2) Friends – Single women must have friends, preferably single friends so that you all can laugh at married women.

3) Breast enlargement pills – If you don’t plan to remain single for a long time and want to jump in the dating pool, get breast enlargement pills. It’s been scientifically proven that men notice a woman’s breasts more than any of her body parts. So your chances of hooking them increase with the use of these pills.

4) Female sex drive – Sometimes, if you’re single for a long time, your sex hormones are raging, craving for sex but sometimes they take a nosedive (hormones are crazy that way) and you lose your sexual desire. If you want to feel sexy, especially if there’s someone special in your life now, get natural supplements that boost female sex drive.

5) Cash in purse – When you’re single and dating, you might meet some of the most boring or extremely weird guys. To flee from the date, you will need a purse loaded with cash for the cab (or metro or bus for that matter), so that he doesn’t have to know your residence address and stalk you later.

6) Facebook – Social networking websites such as Facebook and MySpace not only allow you to  stay in touch with your friends and meet new and exciting people but also kill time with their applications and games.

7) Killer wardrobe – You feel more empowered and sexy when you are single. Being in a relationship makes you let go of yourself. So while you’re single, wear the most sexy, most racy dresses that money can buy.

Dating guide written by a man – Don’t sit and wonder if he will call you or not. Read his expressions with the help of dating guides written by men. These guides tell you what it is and how it is in the dating game.

9) Contraception – Being single is also being wild and careless after a few drinks. This is why, you must always carry condoms or other birth control options in your purse along side cab money.

Tags: Breast Enlargement, single, tips, Women

You need to be very careful when you want to bring a sex toy into your relationship; one wrong move and you can end up hurting your partner’s feelings.

Jason isn’t the most romantic man in the world and he isn’t very good at understanding the feelings of the ‘fairer sex’. So, when he wrapped the ‘Romantic Night in Pack’ (a sensuous kit for lovers) in silver paper and gave it to Jess, all hell broke loose when she opened it.

Jess felt that Jason wasn’t happy with their sex life and that the orgasm booster in the kit was there because she couldn’t always reach climax. End result – Jason slept on the sofa that night. Wondering all night what he had done wrong, he couldn’t come up with one good answer. The following day, he told his story to Brenda, who told him that it is important to first communicate with your partner and learn how he/she feels about such things. Megan had discussed sexual issues in depth with her partner and knew where  he stood, whereas Jason had not done this and therefore had no idea where Jess stood. After talking more with Brenda, Jason saw his fault and took time off from work and went straight to Jess.

He apologized to Jess and told her that he didn’t think anything was wrong with her or with their relationship but that his interest was piqued by these things and he wanted to try them. He also told her that the orgasm booster wasn’t meant to point out her shortcomings but rather to help her attain new heights of pleasure. He told her that he really cared for her and wanted to give her all the pleasure in the world. These products were not only meant to give pleasure but also to enhance and strengthen their relationship.

It took some time for Jess to see Jason’s intention, but she finally realized what he was saying and agreed to play the Lust game that came in the pack. It took her some time before she used the Flower Balm Orgasm Booster, but now she is already hinting to Jason that she wants a rabbit vibrator for her birthday. They are even planning to get Clone A Willy, the make your own dildo kit, for their anniversary.

Tags: Clone a Willy, Rabbit Vibrators, sexyfun

Megan was the first to tackle the task of introducing a sex toy into her relationship. Luckily she had been with her boyfriend for nearly a year and the idea of giving him the Vibrating Heart Cock ring for an anniversary present seemed a perfect combination of naughty and sexy.

As Megan already knew that her boyfriend wouldn’t mind using a sex toy, (he wasn’t at all nervous on the day of her 1 year anniversary. They had finished a romantic dinner at home, which they cooked together, and were getting cosy on the couch when she gave him her exquisitely wrapped gift.

Her boyfriend was overjoyed when he saw the beautifully designed cock ring and was very glad that she was open to the idea of sex toys. He confided that he too wanted to introduce sex toys before but was afraid how she would take it. Once they told each other how they felt about adult toys and how they were comfortable about bringing them into their relationship, they both felt a sudden surge in their intimacy, attraction to one another and their compatibility.

The next day at work, Megan couldn’t stop praising her boyfriend and told everyone that her boyfriend was a perfect match for her. Sharing their thoughts and feelings about all things sexual made them both more comfortable with each other. She even went on to tell how, after using the vibrating ring, her boyfriend suggested a number of play things that they could give a try, including anal toys. This opened a whole new world of sexual exploration for them, ensuring that the sparks between them would remain intact for years to come.

But not all relationships are like this and not everyone is as open to sex toys as Megan and her boyfriend. Soon we will hear from Jason, who didn’t do a very good job of giving Jess her very first erotic gift.

Tags: Adult Toys, Relationships, Sex Toy, Vibrator, Vibrators

We’re a fun-loving bunch at SexyFun, so it’s not unusual for someone to come up with some wacky idea or scheme on any given day. Brenda, the SexyFun manager, not only manages to run the business sensibly with the help of the world’s most insensible, crazy people, but she also manages to have some fun herself once in a while.

What she did this time was not something unusual for her, but it was rather unusual for some people who are “indirectly involved” with the SexyFun team. She asked everyone at SexyFun to take their favorite sex toy home, show it to their boyfriend/ girlfriend/ husband /wife and to use it with them. The immediate responses from staff went something like this:

Ben: You can’t do this to us. I only met Anne* a week ago and I don’t even know if she is into sex toys or not!

(* name changed for privacy reasons)

Megan: I am pretty sure that my boyfriend is comfortable with the idea of using a sex toy. But I can’t just push a vibrator at him and order him to use it. But, that said, I think it’s a great idea; we’ve been wanting to incorporate them into our sex life for a while. Now I can tell him that we will be ‘official adult toy testers’.

Jason: Jess doesn’t even know that I am no longer working as “Accounts Executive” here and that the recent raise I got is because of the change in “line of work”. She thinks we sell products and supplements for sexual problems; I have yet to tell her the truth. I don’t want to go home and say: “Look what I got for you honey, it’s my favorite vibrator.”

Jen: You can’t sit there and smile at us like we are a bunch of silly kids! What you’re asking us to do could ruin our relationships.

Brenda: Yes, but maybe it could do wonders for your relationships. I don’t want you to go home and pounce on your partners. Take your time, build trust and intimacy, and then go bring it up sensitively. I don’t mind if it takes months or even a year. We have all used toys for solo fun, but we only have our customer’s reviews to tell us about our couple’s toys. I just want to be able to answer all the questions and concerns of our readers. I know that most of you are in new relationships and this territory is alien to you, but if you want to go to the next level, this can help you to a great extent. The decision is, after all, up to you.

Brenda has this matter-of-fact way of making us all see the sense in her ideas, which do sometimes seem a bit crazy at first. So, like always, we found ourselves going through all of the products in our minds, wondering which one to start with.

Tags: Adult Toys, Relationships, Sex Toy, Vibrator, Vibrators

Meg, Jen and Brenda at SexyFun meet up often for lunch at their favorite place and end up debating about anything and everything under the sun. Last Wednesday, they argued whether self-pleasuring (with or without sex toys) is better than real sex or not. Jen is in a committed relationship with her boyfriend of three years and Brenda has been married to her childhood sweetheart. Meg is single and ready to mingle.

Meg helps herself to some salad and says “Ladies, shall we continue the discussion we were having this morning?

Jen says “Sure honey, and let me tell you right away, I definitely prefer my boyfriend’s sizzling hot moves to anything else in the world, including adult toys. Self-pleasuring is ok when he isn’t around, but when he is, we just can’t keep our hands off each other.”

Brenda is a little uncertain “Well, Joe isn’t too bad in the sack but he often comes too soon to suit me. We talked to a doctor and it seems he’s got some kind of problem with holding back. And that’s affecting his sexual performance. So right now I am just grateful for the rabbit vibrator I got for my last birthday.”

Meg retorts “It’s all very well for you ladies, but what about me. It’s been eons since I broke up with Terry. And now I have to invite some hot dude over for dinner before I can see some action. I can pleasure myself with adult toys for half the trouble and toil it takes to hook a guy. And I don’t have to worry about contraceptives either.” Jen giggles and says “But when you cuddle or make out with your guy, it’s wonderful! Nothing can ever beat that. Doing it all by yourself seems so cold and mechanical by comparison.”

Brenda rolls her eyes “Yeah, but not if he expects instant passion even if you aren’t in the mood for it. Using a sex toy is sometimes better than doing it with a selfish lover.”

The others laughed and Jen said “You bet it is!”

Tags: Masturbation, Sex, Sexual Health

Were you aware that almost half of all gay porn actors are straight? Did you also know that almost all of them do it behind their girlfriend’s backs? Astoundingly, this phenomenon is becoming increasingly common in the gay industry and has been dubbed ‘gay for pay ’. Whilst the very idea of half naked men in compromising positions is perhaps a welcomed one, spare a thought for the partners of the guys in hotel rooms being stroked to attention by another straight man, whilst being photographed for the internet.

Gay actors will earn up £1,500 a shoot, a rate which is often raised for straight men. Gay porn connoisseurs may have already checked the likes of Ryan Idol, Clay Maverick, Mike Branson, Jeff Stryker and Wolf Hudson, but did you know they were straight? The next time you watch a mucky movie, stop to think, is he gay? Chances are he isn’t.

Nick Baker, owner of gay porn site Englishlads.com has revealed that the number of straight men willing to become gay for pay is on the rise. The motives vary from hard cash, to being slightly bi curious. However, many are unlikely to have gay encounters off camera. Other male actors have told Baker that they do not get enough sex from their girlfriends or wives so the idea of earning money whilst doing it becomes greatly appealing. Speaking to Scarlet Magazine Nick also reveals that a whopping 44% of his 300 models are married or have a girlfriend. Some will only do shoots, whilst other straight men will have penetrative sex with other male models up to 3 to four 4 times any given day of filming.

You may well be wondering just how real gay porn actually is. However, Baker reveals the that gay men can spot a straight actor a mile off, but really enjoy the films because they like that a heterosexual male can really get off on showing his body for gay men. It would appear that straight guys are seeing the gay industry as a platform to flaunt themselves. However, whilst you’d be right in thinking taboos are disappearing, there is still some prejudice surrounding it. Back in 2006, seven straight paratroopers from the American army airborne division were court -martialed for knowingly taking part in gay sex for a popular gay site.

Risking it all for hard men and hard cash

Whilst of course they also run the risk of their partners finding their images online, many of these actors are playing with fire and partaking in ‘bareback films’, essentially productions where the guys do not wear a condom. Although the majority of film makers will take STIs extremely seriously, just last year four in 8 British gay porn actors were diagnosed with HIV as the result of taking part in these productions.

##END##

Shopping Guide For Gay Men

Man To Man Gay Pheromone: Buy Man-2-Man Male Pheromone Spray to Attract Gay Men

Anal Sex Lubricants: Buy Lube-In Anal Lubricant for Better Lubrication